To get me in the mood you must make love to my mind before my body will respond. This is even truer now that I am older. I could care less about sex except for one good time a month. I know you require it more but if you want it, you will have to help me want it.
A hug without the hint of “doing it” would be nice. Telling me how much you love me is even better. Let’s hold hands more and kiss me on my neck just because. All the little things will get you that big thing.
Please don’t take it personal when I don’t want to make love. It isn’t you. You still turn me on. I still think you are hot and you still can make me wet. I need a little extra stroking to get me going.
I hope you understand.
Your Wife
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6 Responses to “Dear Hubby…”
Posted: Nov 26th, 2009 at 12:02 pm
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Posted: Nov 26th, 2009 at 1:04 pm
Oh the wonders of men. I’m with you my mind needs some interaction before the rest of me.
Posted: Nov 26th, 2009 at 1:52 pm
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Posted: Nov 26th, 2009 at 2:54 pm
I am truly convinced that they will never get this. That is why I must remind him constantly by withholding.
Posted: Nov 28th, 2009 at 1:41 am
ahh, and this is why Passion Parties and all other romance party style businesses continue to thrive. This is SO TRUE! If only we could get a billboard that says “Foreplay starts with ‘good morning honey’”
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Posted: Nov 28th, 2009 at 10:24 pm
I don’t think men get this either…
As much as my husband tries to kiss me to get me in the mood.. simply holding my hand will do the job much better.