Comments on: Goodbye my toxic friend,

By: KL

KL — Fri, 05 Mar 2010 15:38:24 +0000

I wanted say as I was reading this, I thought did someone crawl in my head a write this. I’m feeling the same way too and the only difference is it’s been 14 years. I love my friend like a sister and she was even there when my father passed away and it just seems like we are on different paths now. I fine with letting her go because i have prayed about it and realize i’m not losing anything, she is. Everything in this letter says everything that i feel. Good Luck Too Good a Friend for you!! Some people are only here for a season and our season is up.

By: Katie

Katie — Fri, 26 Feb 2010 03:18:52 +0000

Oh, I really understand this one and need to do one of these of my own.

By: Shan @Last Shreds Of Sanity

Shan @Last Shreds Of Sanity — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 03:58:53 +0000

I have a friend who did that to me while I was pregnant. She hung up on me because I asked her NOT to say things about the name I had chosen for my daughter. I tried calling back a few times and she would hang up on me every time.

20 years of friendship and she ended it just like that. It still hurts.

I have another friend that chose drugs and her skanky ho druggie friends over me. She even had one of them call me to tell me she didn’t want to be friends anymore. Didn’t even have the guts to tell me herself.

Why does it hurt us so much when they do this to us? Instinctively we know that we deserve better and it isn’t our faults, but still. WTF?

By: Lynsey Jones

Lynsey Jones — Thu, 11 Feb 2010 03:56:29 +0000

Ugh, I lost my best friend last year after finding out she was having an affair with my husband (Jerry Springer!?) the horrible part is I still mourn her friendship. We were as close as two friends can be, and the betrayal is still as fresh in my mind as if it was yesterday. Just awful. And too, having no closure is awful because I was never able to even talk to her about it the way it all went down. I think losing our girlfriends is the worst, and then betrayal on top of it… ugh. She is right about “Too Good Of a Friend For You!”

By: Lucy

Lucy — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:06:19 +0000

I am going through this same exact thing, Im so sorry. We got into a huge family fight. I had been friends with my sister in law for 6 years. We spoke every week. I thought she was a true friend and ended up finding out that she was the one stirring the pot. Running in between my husbands sister and I. She stopped talking to me. Just droppd me like that. The whole family is confused because they all know what was really going on. It has taken me a long time to get over being hurt and now I am just mad. Our friendship was never real and I think that is what makes this so hard. I feel like an idiot sometimes. My husbands dad would ask me all the time why I liked her so much over the years because he knew what was going on. I think he was hinting bt I never got it. Anyway so sorry.

Lucy

By: Night Owl mama

Night Owl mama — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:03:11 +0000

Hugs sweetie! yes you r too good for that person glad u know it

By: Robin

Robin — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:02:21 +0000

Either way…it’s good to be parted, from trouble. Nice to get it out though.

By: nicole

nicole — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:02:21 +0000

I’ve had to say goodbye to some toxic friends. It hurts and I’ll always care about them-but I just can’t have those types of people around….you’ll be better off.

By: hairstyles for girls

hairstyles for girls — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:02:17 +0000

Oh gosh. I’m glad you got this off your chest. No one needs a friend like that.

By: GrammyMouse

GrammyMouse — Fri, 05 Feb 2010 04:02:13 +0000

some friends are fair weather & not real…
so sorry